It depends. What does your hubby think? It's just that I'm dealing with this from the other side. My husband wants to be done after this one (our third), but I've always wanted a large family. And when we were dating and got married, he agreed with me. So I kind of hurts that he wants to stop now. I'm really disappointed. I don't think this is a decision you should make all on your own. What I'm saying is that I don't think you're selfish for wanting to stop, but you could be selfish for arbitrarily making that decision all on your own, if hubby isn't ready to stop, because in a way you have led him on (not on purpose of course). Of course, you need to listen to yourself, too, because you would need to carry and take care of more children if you had them. It's a fine line, I guess.
at 1:49 AM on Jul. 9, 2009