he has such wierd way of thinking and im so pissed about it i never knew him like this till i had his children. These are the rules he thinks i should follow everyday with no excusses.
no nail polish for the girls or earings , my son cant play with somthing or watch tv that may be for girls, no cuting the girls hairs, girls must were dresses even to play outside, no one can change there diapers but our parents and us, no one may babysit but our parents, me and my children must always be dressed with our hair done because otherwise we look like homeless people, no mess is acceptable atall not even a dish because that is discusting the floor need to be vacuumed 2 times a day and the list could go on for ever. he was never like this when he did not have children and i know he doese it because he loves them and when he comes home he will help if i havent got it all done but is upset that i cant always keep up is he crazy?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:26 PM on Jul. 9, 2009 in General Parenting
Answer by lilliedoll at 3:32 PM on Jul. 9, 2009
Answer by FuzNet at 3:32 PM on Jul. 9, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:38 PM on Jul. 9, 2009
He is very controlling I say..
I personaly would not put up with it..Me and him,,we would be fighting all the time..
I do things my way.
I feel sorry that you found this out after you had kids..
Answer by louise2 at 3:43 PM on Jul. 9, 2009
Answer by kimberlyinberea at 3:43 PM on Jul. 9, 2009
Answer by officerjoeys at 3:55 PM on Jul. 9, 2009
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Answer by incarnita at 4:08 PM on Jul. 9, 2009
I think that's a little controlling and unrealistic. My dh has some of the same rules but not all of them. Like no nail polish or make up until 16 (except dress up or special occasion) which I agree with. We choose not to let anyone watch our kids except for our parents or close family friends. There are a lot of sicko's out there. He doesn't want me to cut my hair or our dd's hair but isn't going to stop us. He likes long hair on women/girls. He also doesn't like it when ds plays with dolls or wears his sisters skirts or whatever but he's 4 and who cares. He won't yell at him to go change or anything, he just says that's girl stuff.
As far as cleaning goes I told him if he doesn't like the way I clean then he can do it himself. Hasn't said a word since. I would try counseling. I think it might have something to do with the way he was raised.
Answer by sadira29 at 4:12 PM on Jul. 9, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 4:16 PM on Jul. 9, 2009