I have these friends I've known for about 6 years or so (we'll call them A (girl) and B (boy)). We've been on and off friends. I knew them before they were a couple and B asked me out numerous times but I had a boyfriend at the time. They got together and it didn't work out. Fast forward to 2 years ago... they were both single and had a 1 night stand. A ended up pregnant. B didn't know if the baby was his and still doesn't know for sure. We were talking for the entire pregnancy but it was nothing more than just friends because I didn't want to get hurt when he chose to be with his baby. Well, that's what happened. They tried to work it out for the baby. She is 15 months old now and they are still together but not happily. He told me he still has feelings for me. Should I just go for it? Not while they're together, obviously, but should I tell him to take the next step so we can see where it goes? She knows he feels this way.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 6:58 PM on Jul. 9, 2009 in Relationships
Yes, what it is it going to hurt? They are doing more damage for that baby because they are not happy than they would if they were not together. The first thing he needs to do is to get a paternity test to prove that baby is his. But in the meantime, I say try. What is the worst that could happen? You find out that you don't like each other? Good luck.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 7:04 PM on Jul. 9, 2009
Only if you do want to get hurt. I say you are crossing the friendship line if you do regardless of it being on and off again. I would be very angry and feel betrayed by you! The hurt will last a long time for their issues and the child. You will just be put into a world of drama. Do you want that? I say find another man.
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