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Why does my husband have to love so aggressively?

He is a good husband but every time he hugs me or kisses me he is so aggressive. When he hugs me he grabs me and leaves bruises on my arms. When he tries to hug our child he squeezes her too hard and she cries. He even squizes our dogs neck when he tries to pet and kiss him. Why?
Does anyone else have to deal with this??

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:36 PM on Jul. 10, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (7)
  • Um no. Can't you just tell him to lighten up?

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:38 PM on Jul. 10, 2009

  • Op: I have

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:40 PM on Jul. 10, 2009

  • I'm sorry, this might be inappropriate but I just thought of Lenny from Of Mice & Men and it made me laugh....
    I dunno, I'm sorry! I know my SO gets so mad when I push him back, he'll say "why do you push me away?" and I'm not! I just need to push him a little so he doesn't break my damn back!!

    Answer by motherofanaries at 8:52 PM on Jul. 10, 2009

  • yeah they are called abusers

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:06 PM on Jul. 10, 2009

  • why is there always one who calls abuse? She didn't say that he beat her, did you even read the post?

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:13 PM on Jul. 10, 2009

  • YES YES YES all the time mine is way to rough and I have brusises on my arms right now because he grabs to hard and plays to rough but I fight back but no use he still leaves brusies we sometimes get into huge fights over it

    Answer by GatorChick at 9:43 PM on Jul. 10, 2009

  • Mine too. He kisses me so loudly on my ears that I think I'm going to be deaf soon. They are rought animals! LOL

    Answer by Yve538 at 12:09 AM on Jul. 11, 2009

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