My husband likes to have sex alot.But ever since I got pregnant the first time my sex drive has gone down.Now we have two kids and it hasnt gotten any better.With my second child I had a c-section and now I get bad cramps so I dont have sex to often cuz I cramp bad.We rarely have time to be intimate now and when we do have time Im to tired.So he sneaks out to the computer and watches porn videos.He knows that I dont like this but continues to do it.Now he told me today that he wants a divorce because I dont do anything around the house or in the bedroom to satisfy him anymore.Should I try to make things work or give him the divorce he wants?Answer Question
ha! If my husband come to me and said that I would tare him a new one. First, your husband needs to know why you aren't into sex much anymore. If it causes you pain or your just to tired, then he should understand, but also if these things are going on with you, the you should also understand that he needs to meet those needs and if him looking at porn does that, the i would rather that then him cheat. Tell him these things, then say okay. I'll give you a divorce and leave it at that. You will see whether he was serious or just said that out of frustration.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 9:38 PM on Jul. 10, 2009
Sounds like he needs to be more patient and instead of asking for a divorce find out what he or you two can do to improve the situation does he have any idea how LONG DRAWN OUT AND MESSY divorce is?! Or does he usually overreact and say cruel things like that? Tell him you need his husbandly support for you to get better so you can sex him the way you want...I donno I hope things get better for you.
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