So I was with my ex for 4 years and he (his member) was average, maybe about 5-6 not thick at all. Now I have been dating someone for a while and we were together last night- I felt it and was like oh my gosh thats gonna hurt. LOL! We didnt last night but now I am kinda cringing because tho I know hes not gonna purposely hurt me its gonna hurt. He's alot bigger than I've ever had (my ex husband).
I know its lame but anyone got ths problem-had this problem???? Do I just not think about it????
Asked by Anonymous at 11:16 AM on Jul. 11, 2009 in Just for Fun
Answer by Anonymous at 11:18 AM on Jul. 11, 2009
I think your worrying to much... I've been with large and small. With enough lube it doesn't really matter how large he is. You just gotta relax about it.
Think of it this way, we are made to stretch enough for a 7 lb baby to slide through. I'm sure he ain'tthat big!! Don't worry, you'll get used to it.
Answer by VeronicaLee at 11:21 AM on Jul. 11, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:21 AM on Jul. 11, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:25 AM on Jul. 11, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:34 AM on Jul. 11, 2009
“true Veronica, but doesnt it take hours for our bodies to prepare for baby to come out??? Thanks tho-ya made me laugh and now I wont worry about it.”
Yes.... but my point was, he isn't going to be THAT big. We are built to handle it. A slow and steady start for a few minutes should be all the time needed to get used to a large man versus a smaller one. I think being nervous about it will make it more difficult because you get all tensed up. Ya gotta be relaxed *down there*
Answer by VeronicaLee at 11:39 AM on Jul. 11, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:49 AM on Jul. 11, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:54 AM on Jul. 11, 2009
If you think its going to hurt it will but if you think well hey I can do this and it will be great then it will don't worry if women can push babies out you can have sex with a guy that's bigger then your ex (I'm sure he's no where near as big as a baby!)
Answer by aubrees_mommie at 12:41 PM on Jul. 11, 2009
Answer by DesignerMom0801 at 12:42 PM on Jul. 11, 2009