I got a check yesterday for almost $900 bucks (whoo!) I tell my SO and drop it off in our shared account and I told him not to spend too much because I wanted to use some of it to buy our daughter her brithday present (her birthday is Aug. 1st, so I kinda have to get going on that) I don't care that he spends money. .what I'm disapointed in is how MUCH he spent. He went out to a lounge yesterday after work (he works 16 hrs away from me) and drank.. and drank.. and drank. He calls me this morning and first thing he says is " I'm sorry. You're going to be so mad at me." I asked why and he told me we only have $300 LEFT of the money put in YESTERDAY. I'm fuming. I'm so upset I can't be upset...
What do I do? I mean he's away from home, so I can't really talk to him face to face. I mean I know he's sorry, BUT if it was ME who pulled stunt like that? WOW. I'd be in the dog house for avery long time.
Answer by DesignerMom0801 at 11:55 AM on Jul. 11, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:58 AM on Jul. 11, 2009
There is nothing you CAN do. You 2 need to have a talk though hun. If he can't be financially responsible and consider his family first, I think you should get your OWN bank account. You need to talk about WHY he did that, WHY he is drinking so much and what not. (Not trying to be judgemental at all and I'm VERY sorry if this offends you in any way, it is not in any way my intention.) I'm so sorry that happened to you and your family. I hope you 2 can communicate and work on it and maybe he can pay it back eventually.
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