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Do you put 100% toward your marriage regardless of what your husband puts toward your marriage? Or do you only match his efforts?

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Asked by dedicatedrider at 8:04 PM on Jul. 11, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I say I do about 90-100, I don't try to match his efforts, because is efforts are shit! Nothing would get done if I did that. lol.

    Answer by soonmommyof3 at 8:05 PM on Jul. 11, 2009

  • Yes I give 100%. I believe in giving more than taking.

    Answer by cdecker83 at 8:08 PM on Jul. 11, 2009

  • I match his efforts. If he is not going to do for me then I am definetely not going to do for him. cheap a**hole, haha j/k.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:12 PM on Jul. 11, 2009

  • We are 100% / 100% we have are all in this relationship and then some. We are a very happy, loving couple/family.

    Answer by raemommy at 8:15 PM on Jul. 11, 2009

  • I'd love to say that we're equals on that level, but truthfully we're not. I feel like at times I give so much more than he does, and then again, I know there are times that he gives more. At least he used to. Seems over the years, he has grown "cool" on that front. I still try though, but when I am ignored or feeling taken advantage of, I do get frustrated.

    Answer by lighthousemom3 at 8:56 PM on Jul. 11, 2009

  • 100%....If I don't do that, then how can I expect him to give 100% back to me?!

    Answer by mommy_bink at 9:44 PM on Jul. 11, 2009

  • Yes, i put in 100% all the time!

    Answer by NewMommyMe at 1:49 PM on Jul. 13, 2009

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