To be blunt: he is really bad at it. I have rarely ever enjoyed it and have never had an orgasm from him going down on me. I can orgasm during sex, and usually do given enough time.
At first I tried giving him little hints about what I wanted. Then I went on to dirty talk and telling him more directly what would get me off. Then I showed him what I want by guiding his hand and then by masturbating in front of him. Lastly I just flat out told him the problem, told him what he can do to get me off and what he should stay away from doing.
NONE of this has worked. He still really sucks at it. I am fed up because I have spent time "perfecting" giving him oral. I've paid attention to what he likes, asked him what he likes, even read up on it and learned new tricks, and I have gotten my gag reflex way down. But he as put no effort forth in figuring out how to give me good oral. Even when I am telling and showing him exactly how!
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