My father has been dead for about a month and my mom is packing up his things for a truck that will come by Monday. I was over not too long ago,packing up his things and even though there is alot of junk left she won't let me touch it,she says she has to go through it.I want to be a help and show her I care but I don't want to waste my time either,if she wants my help she better have things for me to do.I asked her,do you want me to come over and help you and she said I don't know what I'm doing tomorrow, I'll see,but if I came over there she would use me to help because it's happened before.I f I call first she'll say no, so I just show up.
Asked by Anonymous at 2:44 AM on Jul. 12, 2009 in Relationships
It's only been a month. She is still going Thur the grieving. Give your mom some time and allow her to do what she's got to do. WHAT'S THE BIG HURRY? Allow your mother to grieve she was married and had alot of years and memorys with your father.
Answer by Anonymous at 2:53 AM on Jul. 12, 2009
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