My SO and I have been having issues in our relationship with his "female friends". I have left a few times because I felt he continued to be disprectful and unwilling to compromise. He insist he has NEVER cheated on me, but he's lied and hid some of these relationships. The problem usually starts with me checking his email, cell phone, myspace and discovering things that I feel just shouldn't be said or shared between "friends". He talks pretty negitively about me and sometimes says stuff like " I miss everything about you" (this was directed towards his ex girlfriend, in which he took my two kids to visit without my knowledge) but wonders why I trip when I find things. He said that my insecurities are killing our relationship, and he--once again--has never CHEATED. I always discover new girls, and emails or text that are upsetting and I promised I wouldn't but he hasn't changed either. (con'd)...
Asked by Anonymous at 6:42 AM on Jul. 12, 2009 in Relationships
He is right. Why would he tell you anything if you are going to be so irrational about it. He never gives you reason not to trust him yet you snoop. And when you find things that you can make issues out of you run with them. Men are allowed to have females friends. And if your actions are making him miss another female who's fault is that? You need to get over your own insecurities and stop killing your relationship. Love your husband and trust that he loves you. Relax and do what needs to be done. Stop wasting time. You obviously don't like the person you've become and neither does he.
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