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lonely when he is around?

When it is me and the kids, or just me alone, I am fine
but
I feel lonely when boyfriend is home

any others feeling this way?

 
boredmom44

Asked by boredmom44 at 10:55 AM on Jul. 12, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • I FEEL JUST LIKE THIS
    ASHLEY1436

    Answer by ASHLEY1436 at 12:28 PM on Jul. 12, 2009

  • I was never lonelier than when I was married and my x was home. I know what you mean

    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:02 AM on Jul. 12, 2009

  • Sound like this BF needs to be your EX-BF..You don't seem to love him.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 11:11 AM on Jul. 12, 2009

  • i love him
    but he does not say this back to me
    boredmom44

    Answer by boredmom44 at 11:12 AM on Jul. 12, 2009

  • Some times love has nothing to do with a relationship..When the relatioship is one sided.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 11:30 AM on Jul. 12, 2009

  • it does feel one sided
    how can I get him to connect with me

    lately I think he sees me as mom and housekeeper only
    boredmom44

    Answer by boredmom44 at 11:43 AM on Jul. 12, 2009

  • I know exactly how you feel. When its me and the kids I am fine and feel great. Whenever my husband gets home I feel lonely and depressed. Doesn't even feel like a relationship anymore. Maybe its time to call it quits.
    Princefan6684

    Answer by Princefan6684 at 12:00 PM on Jul. 12, 2009

  • I would just tell him straight out..You do not make feel like you love me.. Why are you putting up with this and he is not your DH?I wouldn't..

    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 1:18 PM on Jul. 12, 2009

  • We are in control of our own happiness..
    If your BF needs to be reminded that he loves you, and needs to remind YOU that he loves you, perhaps he doesn't love you enough anyway..
    Point is, yeah it's nice to hear the words, but in my personal opinion, you should KNOW he loves you, you should feel he loves you..
    if you don't?
    Boot him..
    Mad_Hexer

    Answer by Mad_Hexer at 1:41 PM on Jul. 12, 2009

  • I am living just like that at this time. Don't know what to do about it.
    momtoeight

    Answer by momtoeight at 2:08 PM on Jul. 12, 2009