My husband takes a shot at me and our marriage at every opportunity. He thinks he is being funny, and if I ever say anything about it he calls me "too sensitive" or "insecure" or "unable to take a joke".
The jokes he makes are like:
I am married, my life is over anyways
I don't have fun, I am married
Hell sounds like a great place compared to marriage
I don't need to worry about letting myself go, I am married
What the f*** do I care, I am married
It is all downhill now because I am married
And the list could go on and on. He says it in a joking tone (sometimes more than others), but I am so fed up with it and my feelings really do get hurt by his "jokes". But every time I have brought up (in a non-attacking way) that it hurts my feelings he just gets upset and says I don't understand his sense of humor. That they are jokes and I must be sensitive and insecure.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:39 AM on Jul. 13, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 5:57 AM on Jul. 13, 2009
Yes you are sensitive. They are only JOKES! Men have been joking like this for YEARS!
Answer by Anonymous at 7:52 AM on Jul. 13, 2009
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Answer by SoKamele at 8:09 AM on Jul. 13, 2009
Answer by moki1984 at 9:55 AM on Jul. 13, 2009
Answer by Mad_Hexer at 10:33 AM on Jul. 13, 2009
Answer by kerijeanbean at 1:08 AM on Jul. 14, 2009