Me and my husband have been married for almost a year now, and have been together for four years off and on before that. Everytime we broke things off it was bcuz of fighting and him being too controlling. Now the problems have arised again. Except he has been saying very hurtful, and demeaning things to me such as: he hates me, he's miserable w/me, the only reason we are together is to raise our daughter. Its embarassing to let him treat me like this, especially bcuz i would never want this for my daughter! recently i have not wanted to have sex with him bcuz i feel hurt by how hes treating me and i just amnot into it, he told me he doesnt wanna live this way and that its stressful for him to not have sex, then I found out he is getting tons of porn off the internet when we r sleeping. I feel this is wrong for me to put up with? Am I wrong?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:23 PM on Jul. 13, 2009 in Religion & Beliefs
Answer by NightOwlMama at 9:47 PM on Jul. 13, 2009
no. But honey you knew who you were marrying...men don't often change, no matter how bad we want them to. I think you need to step back and see if this is what you want for the rest of your life. Put your child first and go from there.
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