I live with my boyfriend and his two kids. We have lived together for 2 years. The kids call me mom and tell me they love me every day. We are a happy family and i understand these kids are not mine... But we all make a great team.
Here is where the situation is... The kids mother dropped them off at my bf's mothers house 5 years ago and never looked back. She never called or wrote them for five years. They are now 9 and 10 and they tell me they are happier then they ever have been....
Now, The mother calls us... She wants to speak to her children. I feel very uncomfortable because i love these kids as my own and they haven't seen her in 5+ years. She wants to be apart of their life. I know for a fact she will just leave again, the only reason she wants something to do with them is because she realizes the kids are very close with me. I don't feel as though this is right at all. She is realizing what she lost. what can i do?
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