Tonight I told my dad I would make dinner and he appriciated it. So I start making it and my SM asks what I am making. I say home made mashed potatoes, green beans and grilled chicken. She headed out side turned on the grill and made chicken for my dad. (she had eaten cereal when she knew I was cooking). Well I thought that was pretty rude!! Then everything I was doing was wrong, the way I made the gavy, the potatoes ect....EVERYTHING. I asked her if my lil sister was going to eat this and she said no she wouldnt like it and that she would have to fend for herself so I said ok, later my sis started crying because there wasnt enough for her to eat and again, it was my fault because "sissy didnt make any for you".
How do I tell her I dont like her doing stuff like this? And it hurts my feelings?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:28 PM on Jul. 13, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 11:30 PM on Jul. 13, 2009
Answer by Dom123123 at 11:32 PM on Jul. 13, 2009
Answer by Rachelle2283 at 12:18 AM on Jul. 14, 2009
Sounds to me as if it is time for your dad to stand up and be a man! He needs to tell his wife she needs to be a bit more respectful of your feelings! That was just a cold hearted bitchy thing to do and had I been you, she would have been wearing that gravy! You sound VERY young to me--as in underage young--and if that is the case, then there may be only so much you CAN do, but one thing you should NEVER have to do is allow someone else to treat you like dirt. Stand up for yourself. You don't have to be rude to say "I don't like the way you treat me. It makes me feel hurt and sad and I'm not going to allow you to do that to me anymore!" Say it with some UMPH behind it! Say it looking in her face, not at the floor. And when she starts again, look her in the eye, say "ENOUGH" and walk away! Don't give her power that is YOURS! She isn't worth it!! Good luck!
Answer by SimplyLaine at 6:39 AM on Jul. 14, 2009
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