my DH and i have been married 8 yrs together 10yrs. We have two children. Our youngest has been very difficult to get in his own bed. It was so hard to have us all sleeping together, he would just sleep in the other room. Now it has just become "normal". At first I really hated it, but with the baby in the bed, it was easier, and I got the sleep I needed. Now i have worked really hard to get him to sleep in his own bed. Most nights are good. But DH still in other room. Really starting to bother me - and to top it off, the sex...is rare. In fact, I was all ready last night, we are laying there...and he tells me it will just have to be another night. totally disappointed. It has been a few weeks already. Not completely abnormal, but very abnormal to already be in bed and be told...maybe later. I am trying not to worry - is it his age (40) or do you think I should worry?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:01 AM on Jul. 14, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 12:08 AM on Jul. 14, 2009
Answer by PaceMyself at 12:28 AM on Jul. 14, 2009
I let my kids sleep with me on a rare occasion. My DH usually has no problem with it and it is after all the luvin'. It usually only happens if they have a nightmare. Your DH might have some problems. Every person is different and the only way to be sure of anything is to talk to him. Maybe he has gotten so tired of the fact that he has to sleep in the other room that he has no interest, or maybe he has found some other way to fulfill his needs. I hate to put doubt in your mind, but you have to be honest with yourself.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 1:06 AM on Jul. 14, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 1:30 AM on Jul. 14, 2009
Answer by missanc at 10:52 AM on Jul. 14, 2009