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Is it ok for men that are of no relation - gay with HIV to bathe a 3yr old girl

Also she has a brother tht is 11 and impressionable. He has picked up some bad habits. Talks aabout sex a lot. His mother has lupus and is unpredictable. This guy in her house has low morals and has done some questionable things. I don't like the influence he has over her. He is not even a loyal friend.

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mimoglow

Asked by mimoglow at 1:32 AM on Jul. 14, 2009 in Preschoolers (3-4)

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  • okay wait... you have a daughter who has an 11 year old half brother who's mother has lupus and the guy in her house is.... shady at best... where does the gay man come in?

    okay so, personally i would have no problem with a gay man to watch my daughter, even to give her a bath, even with HIV... as long as he isnt rubbing his open wounds with her open wounds ;] hell i wouldnt care if a straight man bathed my 3 year old daughter as long as i trusted him, most men arent perverts like that, the ones who are have serious issues

    the shady guy though i would not be comfortable with. please clarify? if the gay man is the shady guy then definitely not!
    pookipoo

    Answer by pookipoo at 1:39 AM on Jul. 14, 2009

  • " I don't like the influence he has over her. He is not even a loyal friend."

    I think you just answered your question.
    Alysia_Moore

    Answer by Alysia_Moore at 1:49 AM on Jul. 14, 2009

  • " This guy in her house has low morals and has done some questionable things. "

    as well.
    Alysia_Moore

    Answer by Alysia_Moore at 1:49 AM on Jul. 14, 2009

  • yuk no
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:57 AM on Jul. 14, 2009

  • The gay man with HIV isn't my problem. It is the fact that he is a questionable influence that I would have the problem with.
    Mom1Stepmom1

    Answer by Mom1Stepmom1 at 2:11 AM on Jul. 14, 2009

  • I agree that I wouldnt have a problem w/ the 'gay, hiv +' aspect of it.... IF he was a CLOSE family friend who I completely trusted with my children. If he was 'shady' had 'questionable intentions' and 'low morals,' it wouldnt matter if he was gay, straight, bi, HIV+, HIV-, etc. I wouldnt trust him to watch my 3 yr old, MUCH LESS give her a bath!
    AlyTweet

    Answer by AlyTweet at 4:58 AM on Jul. 14, 2009

  • um no? i mean really?
    wtf no one bathes my kids except me and their father... if they stay with grandparents they get baths before they go....
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:43 AM on Jul. 14, 2009

  • I could use some clarification as well on what his questionable actions are-
    LadyAronna

    Answer by LadyAronna at 1:18 PM on Jul. 14, 2009

  • honestly i wouldn't let anyone take my kids a bath especially if they're not family!!! that's just me. as for it being a gay guy with hiv so what hiv isn't contagious just make sure he doesn't have any open wounds
    felicia7806

    Answer by felicia7806 at 7:32 AM on Jul. 16, 2009

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