I'm a SAHM of 4 kids. Been in a rocky marriage for the past 10 years. I've attended a few therapy sessions over the (he always refused, said I was the problem!). This past year has been hell so I though enough is enough. I did therapy for two months, gave my husband an ultimatum - he's changed completely!
The real twist here is that I've been having an affair with a divorced man (our daughters are classmates) for the past month. NEVER in a million years would I have imagined myself being in this situation. I'm as conservative as they come, until He came along.
He's an awesome dad among many other things. He's positive & understanding. I miss him BADLY when we are apart. I just feel like I can't leave my husband now that he's trying hard to be good. But the truth is I'm not in love with him and feel like I'm just staying for the kids. I feel like I'm just "playing" the role of wife because I feel bad for him. What do I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:50 AM on Jul. 14, 2009 in Relationships
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