I have no where else to go but here. I want to change things but cant. I moved to another state with my husband 2 years ago. He has many family members here and I have none. We have children. I want to get away from my husband. I got extremely sick a year ago and have been in the hospital twice. Between that I have been on antibiotics the entire time even now. I have lost my life. I am sick with a staph infection that wont go away. He blames me for it. I have gained weight from being on all the med's and from my immune system being compromised. I have no one here to turn to. My family back home is seperated and I only have 1 brother. He is homeless after being a drug addict since his young years. My Mom is not in a position to help me. My Dad is not around. I dont know what to do. I want to change my life. I am tired of being sick all the time. I have had this infection going on 4 years.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:48 PM on Jul. 14, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by lovemykids847 at 3:52 PM on Jul. 14, 2009
I am so sorry you are feeling so frustrated and helpless. Being dependent is HARD! Are your children grown? While now might not be the best time to launch out on your own, you can try planning. I know it can seem impossible at times, but a long time ago someone told me this.When it seems that there is no way to get "there" think yourself "there" and work your way back. Back yourself into a plan. I would think your biggest concern needs to be getting healthy, at least for your children! Learn EVERYTHING you can about staph infections. There's always online organizations or support groups. Not sure if you are religious at all but joining a church would be a great way to meet new people, make friends, and feel the sense of belonging and support you need. Don't know your situation, not judging in any way, but it's probably also a big strain on your husband being your only support.
Answer by sunshinesmon at 4:17 PM on Jul. 14, 2009
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