Thank you all! While I have been getting advice from all over, I'd decided to try acting as if I were ok & willing; however, I found out last night that he has been seeing someone. So, this explains the "coming out of left field" feeling I had.
I"ll try the imagining 6 months from now because I did that when our son passed away & it really seemed to help.
Our only problem is we have one car & he is out of work; he goes & sees her at night after our kids are in bed & comes home whenever. I've begged him just to leave for good & be w/her but he wont, says he will stay the night in a park & come get us for work/school, but I do NOT want to see him at all! Not too sure why he is insisting on being in both places (he sleeps on the couch)...it is killing me more seeing him leave & I know where he is going now. His attitude today is like, "You know where I'm going, so I am going."
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