There is a girl from his past that he used to be crazy over, hes lied to me before about talking to her etc and promised not to and its been about 2 years since... well, she wrote me through email asking for me to tell him to call her. i called him and told him i kind of laughed it off, like "why does she think i would HAVE you call her?" he laughed said he doesnt know why she thinks he would talk to her and we hung up. i cjhecked me email eagain and she said she talked to his MOM and she gave her my SO phone number and they talked and she got a hold of him... my SO lied to me...
what would you do? im sooooo irritated and frustrated!!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 3:49 PM on Jul. 17, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by momatonly16 at 3:54 PM on Jul. 17, 2009
Well how long have you been together? and if they are talking, why does she feel the need to tell you that? sounds to me it may be true, but also may be a ploy to piss you off because he may not be talking to her. I would make sure that is true.Then I would asses whether everything we been through is worth the heartache and mistrust you will have because of the situations your in.
Answer by Bmat at 3:55 PM on Jul. 17, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:55 PM on Jul. 17, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:56 PM on Jul. 17, 2009
Well in that case I would say, if we are suppose to be in a relationship and love each other, then how can I say if you have Been lying to me the entire time we have been together. I would tell him that a relationship built on lies is no relationship at all. Then I would part ways. Meaning I would leave. But that is just me. I have seen to many women that I love get hurt by cunning, smooth guys like yours. They always say, Oh we are JUST friends. or there's nothing to worry about your being paranoid. or my fav. She called me! what was I suppose to do be rude and tell her I can talk.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 3:59 PM on Jul. 17, 2009
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 4:01 PM on Jul. 17, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 4:17 PM on Jul. 17, 2009