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Here we go again! What would u think?

My mans been staying out till 3:30 every morning for 2 wks now. Today he left at 1PM & still not back. He's always been right with me. It really hurts he don't want to be with me & his 4 month old. He says he playing video games at friends house. Is he cheating ?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:32 AM on Jul. 18, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • Sorry but that's ridiculous (above) if my man was out til 3 am or so every night "playing" video games I would have lost it on him by now. He has an SO and a family now. We are not in middle school and there is no excuse not to answer the phone. I hope you put your foot down. He is acting like a 15 year old. He should me at home a majority of the time, it's one thing hang out with your buddies once a week and another to do it every night
    Lauren24

    Answer by Lauren24 at 3:51 AM on Jul. 18, 2009

  • I would call him and see if he answers. If he answers or calls you right back, and he says "I love you" before he hangs up then it's probably ok. No answer and no call back, I would get suspicious(sp?)
    OwensMama824

    Answer by OwensMama824 at 12:35 AM on Jul. 18, 2009

  • possibly. his butt needs to be home with you and his child. you aren't running around late at night-you seem mature. maybe he's overwhelmed too.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:36 AM on Jul. 18, 2009

  • you better do some investigating girl.
    PURPULbutterfly

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 12:40 AM on Jul. 18, 2009

  • He don't ever answer his phone & I'm lucky if he text me!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:40 AM on Jul. 18, 2009

  • I hate men and the video game obsession.. I'd tell him straight up I think you're cheating on me because you never want to be here... if he's not maybe he will atleast lay off the pointless ass video games for awhile.
    2boymama

    Answer by 2boymama at 12:46 AM on Jul. 18, 2009

  • I have already told him that & he says ok after having sex, then back to the same thing next night! I can't take it NO MORE!!!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:56 AM on Jul. 18, 2009

  • Personally, I'd be worried..But I my be bias cuz my husband was saying he was going to play video games with a friend...and he was actually seeing someone else..I'd look into it
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:15 AM on Jul. 18, 2009

  • Hes a husband and a dad now so he needs to act like one and have his butt at home and not play video games like a kid. I would go to the friends house and see if hes there dont bother calling because you cant see through the phone
    heavenlypeace

    Answer by heavenlypeace at 2:33 AM on Jul. 18, 2009

  • Why would he be cheating? Just ask him? Have u ever talked about cheating, and honestly why would he having a baby? Is he an idiot? Lol I ask because he should be at home helping u take care of that baby! My husband hangs out with his guy friends, he's been distant, and never gets home until late, every night changes, but I know him to well to know he wouldn't cheat. Talk to your man, ask him if he's under stress or needs down time. Don't leave him out!
    Hesmynavyman

    Answer by Hesmynavyman at 2:55 AM on Jul. 18, 2009

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