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Ok I DO NOT want him taking my son over night even if he is the dad!

My ex is an ass hole. All around straight up dick. When his other son was a month old he forgot him in the car when he was at Walmart, (but remembered him as soon as he walked in the door, but still) dropped him on the sement ground outside of his appartment at 5 months and he slept through him crying all night once! We are no longer together and He wanted our newborn son over night tonight and I said hell no! I do not want a irrisponsible brat watching my son! Did I do the right thing in saying that?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:40 AM on Jul. 19, 2009 in Babies (0-12 months)

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Answers (10)
  • Sounds to me like you made the right call. If I were you I would also only allow supervised visitation as well.
    Love2BMommy77

    Answer by Love2BMommy77 at 1:45 AM on Jul. 19, 2009

  • I wouldn't let him see him at all.
    sarapurser

    Answer by sarapurser at 1:41 AM on Jul. 19, 2009

  • I agree. Im sorry, i am VERY forgetfull and i have never forgotten my daughter in the car or anywhere!

    And a cement pavement? Wow. How the heck does he sleep through the night. My dh is a heavy sleeper and cant even sleep through our daughter crying.

    I wouldnt let my baby go either.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:44 AM on Jul. 19, 2009

  • why did u have another kid with him is my question?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:44 AM on Jul. 19, 2009

  • I don't believe he did all that to his first son and maybe your just a bi@ch to him because he is your ex.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:47 AM on Jul. 19, 2009

  • the first one isn't mine and my son was a surprise lol

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:47 AM on Jul. 19, 2009

  • yeah ok anon
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:48 AM on Jul. 19, 2009

  • but why would u want to be with a person that is so irresponsible. that makes no sense to me
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:49 AM on Jul. 19, 2009

  • Sorry OP, I thought sarapurser asked this question.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:50 AM on Jul. 19, 2009

  • omg not the question here! thats why Im not with him!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:50 AM on Jul. 19, 2009