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Have you ever had a friend come out and tell you they want to be with you even though you're with someone else?

I had that happen recently. I finally wisened up and realized that was what was going on so I just said I would call when I was ready to spend time with that person again. Sure enough, a month later, I started getting calls and emails from the person saying they missed me, that I was a great friend. When I stood my ground politely, the person freaked and said it was true, they love me and want to be with me and started crying. Anyway... how rude! Any similar stories?

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:32 PM on Jul. 19, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Ha Yes! One of my high school guy friends emails me & tells me that he is practially in love with me & everything...WHILE I WAS WITH HIS BEST FRIEND. after i broke up with his best friend we did try the dating thing and it lasted about a week then i moved on to a different guy and a couple months later the same guy emails me again telling me how much he missed me and that he wanted to marry me and move in with him & i was like dude im 4 months pregnant & engaged are you stupid? some guys aren't all that smart lol

    Answer by colesmommy2009 at 9:47 PM on Jul. 19, 2009

  • okay so i said a couple months later & what i meant was a few months later.

    Answer by colesmommy2009 at 9:48 PM on Jul. 19, 2009

  • no just guys begging me to sleep with them when they knew i was married. they didnt say they wanted to be wit me or anything

    Answer by Kersten at 10:05 PM on Jul. 19, 2009

  • Yep, after I got married I logged into AOL randomly one day. An old friend was on and said hi. Asked how I was doing. I told him I was married and pregnant. He got a little upset and asked how old my husband was. I told him. He got really pissed because that was his age. He thought I wouldn't go for a guy 4 years older than me so he never made a move but said he did always have a crush on me. I told him I had a crush on him too but since he didn't make a move I thought he wasn't interested despite staying out with me till 2am (or later) quite a few nights. He went on and on how my marriage would never last and asked if I would turn to him if it failed. I saw him a few times after that but now he refuses to talk to me since I have been married and loyal to my husband for nearly 4 years now. What sucks is he was like a BFF to me.

    Answer by purpleducky at 9:35 AM on Jul. 20, 2009

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