My ex and I went to mediaition the other day to work out parenting time for our boys who are 3 and 4 years old, it went really well I thought, but shortly after getting home I get a call from a friend telling me that my ex had raped one of our friends. My ex had gone right from mediaition to our friends house where he then raped her and went home and acted like nothing happened. He was put in jail for 1st degree sexual assult and has since made bail. He wants to keep my boys on the same parenting time plan as we figured out, but I am not sure I am comfortable with it or not. My laywer put a hold on all his parenting time and has pretty much left it up to me if I want to take them there or not. I am almost 100% sure it will just be until he goes to court because I am pretty sure that he will be going to jail because of everything against him and he has been in jail for other things before.Answer Question
Answer by MommyLee08 at 10:05 PM on Jul. 19, 2009
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Answer by Ash9724 at 10:14 PM on Jul. 19, 2009
He is accused of raping a grown woman, not a CHILD, and not a boy. I agree I would be wary, but the children are probably safe. You have to remember that a person is always innocent until proven guilty anyway, and you don't want to do anything irrevocable until and unless he is actually convicted.
Answer by pagan_mama at 10:17 PM on Jul. 19, 2009
Answer by MandiDueAug09 at 10:34 PM on Jul. 19, 2009
ummm...no?! I wouldn't have even questioned this! I don't care if they are his kids. This man has been convicted of a seriously violent crime. There should be no question in your mind that your children are unsafe with this man.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:56 PM on Jul. 19, 2009