I want my husband to feel special and loved, but every time I go out of my way to do things he doesn't care. If I make him a special breakfast before work he wont eat it. I offer to iron his clothes, but says don't bother. I make him lunch to take and he leaves it. I tell him to go out with his friends and he wont. I ask him to pick a movie he wants to see - no reaction. I try to schedule golf time or get him to go to the batting cages - nope! I've even offered massages, to do his nails,trim his beard and tons of other stuff - I get a big far no!
He makes me not want to even try anymore or even offer. He doesn't do the slightest for me let alone offer to do anything for me. So I figured if I treat him really nice and do nice things he'd do the same for me. But he doesn't want me to do anything caring for him. I makes me feel rejected. What do yall think?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:31 PM on Jul. 19, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Cherrie522 at 11:32 PM on Jul. 19, 2009
Answer by JeremysMom at 11:35 PM on Jul. 19, 2009
Answer by kat324 at 11:37 PM on Jul. 19, 2009
To the OP and Kat324- I strongly suggest reading Dr. Laura's "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands". I think both of you have the right idea but some of her ideas will help you with this. She really explains very well about why men do the things that they do. It was a real eye opener for me.
Answer by JeremysMom at 11:43 PM on Jul. 19, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:54 PM on Jul. 19, 2009
Answer by CoolGirlChris at 12:33 AM on Jul. 20, 2009