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Do men always (or at least most of the time) think about other women when they are having sex with you?

Does it hurt you to think that your husband might be doing this?


Asked by Anonymous at 12:43 AM on Jul. 20, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • I care where my husband gets his appetite. Forsaking all others doesn't mean 'just don't touch another'. My husband should not have sex with me if another woman is on his mind, that is WRONG in more ways than one. When thinking sexually my husband is the only man on my mind. My faithfulness goes beyond the physical & hopefully his does too.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:35 AM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • I read an article once that said women think about other guys more when having sex that guys do.

    Answer by sarapurser at 12:43 AM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • No, why would he be thinking about someone else?? I'm not in my SO's head, so I can't say with 100% certainty that he's not, but I've asked him && he looked at me like I was crazy. He seemed kinda hurt that I would even ask, so I'm pretty sure that he only thinks about me when we're having sex.

    Answer by HisMommySince07 at 12:45 AM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • No,I think they think about themselves.


    Answer by Julie411me at 12:49 AM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • I trust 100% that my husband doesn't think about other women, but I think it's a pretty common occurance. It would wound me deeply to learn that he was doing that. I would feel like I wasn't good enough. It might even destroy our relationship.

    Answer by Ati_13 at 12:49 AM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • well he's always screamin out my name so i guess not.

    Answer by LilChynaDollie at 12:54 AM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • I think only married couples think of each other but people just having sex with each other with no feelings whatsoever yeah sure why not.

    But if you are talking about yourself don't even go there...sometimes people think of something for so long they start to believe it and then there is no more marriage get it out of your head.
    unless of course you don't trust him. Now that is a different story. GL

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 12:56 AM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • Don't know...or really care. I doubt it. I think their minds are just blank. Im sure when he pleases himself he does.

    Answer by Lauren24 at 1:22 AM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • Well, while he has never admitted it, I think any woman would be a fool to think their man has never done this before. ANd who cares where he got his appetite that night, as long as hes having dinner with you!!! Good luck momma

    Answer by Lipstk713 at 1:38 AM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • Honestly I don't think they "think" about much of anything during sex. He seems more concentrated on doing it, and getting his, and giving me mine.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:01 PM on Jul. 20, 2009