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Could my husband be gay?

He met a guy on craigslist and received oral sex from him. DH says it's the only time it happened and he feels guilty, but why would he go to a random stranger online and recieve oral sex.

Could he be gay?

He says he didn't perform oral sex on the stranger though.

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:48 PM on Jul. 20, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (23)
  • he's gay... or bi... or curious..

    that's still cheating in my book though.

    Answer by rAbella at 5:52 PM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • Yes I would say he's gay. Gay or not he had oral sex with a stranger and you're still with him?!?!

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:52 PM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • Ow yey

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:52 PM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • i would be filing for a divorce if i were you. infidelity is unexcusable and you deserve more than a cheating spouse. the question shouldnt be is he gay. the question should be are you willing to tolerate an unfaithul husband?

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:54 PM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • Gay/Bi/Curious...doesn't's still cheating!

    Answer by sophiafarris at 5:55 PM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • That is an obimination! He is a sinner and will burn in Hell when his Judgement Day is over! The Day the Rapture comes he will not be spared and rise to the heavens with the good Lord God! The gates shall NOT OPEN FOR THAT HOMOSEXUAL! GOD HAVE MERCY ON HIS SOUL CUZ LORD KNOWS HE WILL NEED IT!!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:55 PM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • Yes, sounds like your Dh is a flaming homosexual.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:56 PM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • ok, WTF!!! Why are you still with him?? That is cheating, no matter if it was with a man or a woman. && why would he go on craigslist to get some random stranger to do it?? He needs to be tested b/c some STDs can be spread through saliva as well.

    Answer by HisMommySince07 at 5:58 PM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • Did he tell you this willingly or did you happen to stumble across the evidence? If he's done it once, nine times out of ten he's done it before or will do it in the future. Your dh needs help to decide if he wants to be openly gay and you should stop having sex with him!

    Answer by mom2mybabes at 6:00 PM on Jul. 20, 2009

  • I'd say if he was aroused by another man that he is probably inclined on the gay side of life. You should be checked for STDs if you've been with him since. You have only his word that he didn't do anything else. Get counseling.

    Answer by Bmat at 6:02 PM on Jul. 20, 2009

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