we are separating and hes moving out this week. i do still love him. but things just aren't working out. i always wounder what he has going on with a girl, they had a supposedly brief emotional affair... he told her last night on the phone that he sent her a long message on f.b. he doesn't know i heard... he changed his password on his computer last night as well... and felt the need to tell me he has set up dating sites because it turns him on... how do i not let these things get to me. he wants me to make the effort to make our relationship work... -confusedAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:53 AM on Jul. 21, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Bmat at 8:58 AM on Jul. 21, 2009
Answer by tabbys4 at 9:08 AM on Jul. 21, 2009
He seems self absorbed. He had an emotional affair & is calling this woman & sending her facebook messages, while also setting up profiles on dating sites....BUT, he wants YOU to make an effort to make the relationship work? Does the earth revolve around him? I don't think so, let his ass go. Set up some profiles on some dating sites. Tell him you have a date this Friday, & tell him to f*ck off when the door slams behind him. Go out & hang out w/ your girl friends, meet some guys & let HIM wonder what YOU have going on w/ some guy.
Good luck, be strong & know your beautiful & that you have nothing stopping you!
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