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What kind of things would make you wonder if your man was cheating?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:49 PM on Jul. 21, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Anything he started doing that wasn't "normal" for him would make me wonder if something was up.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:53 PM on Jul. 21, 2009

  • being more secretive on the computer. changing passwords on his email/myspace/ect accounts. Locking his phone or being more protective of it. . talking about a particular girl (they say most people who cheat talk about the person-even to their own spouce! You get so excited about your new love you cant help it!).
    suddenly spending more time away from home... spending more money & not being able to account for it..
    the list can go on... ever relationship is diffrent..
    MommaTasha1003

    Answer by MommaTasha1003 at 7:53 PM on Jul. 21, 2009

  • changing his passwords, weird phone calls/emails. More secretive! He is very open right now and tells me EVERYTHING so if there was any way that went down a little I'd wonder.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:56 PM on Jul. 21, 2009

  • ya know what? after all these years of marriage, i need a break. he can cheat all he wants. teehee
    no really, ok on a serious note, if he buys new underwear he is cheating.
    jewjewbee

    Answer by jewjewbee at 8:00 PM on Jul. 21, 2009

  • The

    "Oh she's just a friend"

    Phrase....
    Dannee

    Answer by Dannee at 8:27 PM on Jul. 21, 2009

  • not answering the phone
    decreased calls and or visits
    not bringing me around where he hangs out
    late night quick visits

    mommymeg03

    Answer by mommymeg03 at 9:08 PM on Jul. 21, 2009

  • LMAO @ jewjewbe!!
    mommymeg03

    Answer by mommymeg03 at 9:09 PM on Jul. 21, 2009

  • lol, I never have to wonder. He cheats all the time and tells me about it. He's a hoot. It would bother me more if he could do anything but at his age all he can do is chase them!
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 10:07 PM on Jul. 21, 2009

  • If he stopped having sex with me, always had an excuse to be gone from the house, more secretive, strange emails and or phone calls. Finding panties that weren't mine.
    lowencope

    Answer by lowencope at 11:17 PM on Jul. 21, 2009

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