I have a 3 month old baby boy. we all have our own ways of raising babies. I dont believe in letting him cry so i go to comfort him when he does im also breastfeeding him and am co sleeping because of it. However my husband and his side of the family are very negative and they think im doing things the wrong way. His mother believes i should let him cry i shouldnt be breastfeeding anymore he should be in his own bed and tells me i hold him to much. REALLY it drives me nuts how do i say something with out sounding rude?Answer Question
Answer by Nathskitten at 12:52 AM on Jul. 22, 2009
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Answer by gdiamante at 12:56 AM on Jul. 22, 2009
There isn't a way.sorry. The only thing you can do is tell her as nicely as possible that she raised her children and that this one is yours. Whatever mistakes you make are yours to make and learn from. Co-sharing of the bed... I kind of agree with the mil on that one. A crib in your room would be more beneficial to all three of you, as I am pretty sure not one of you is getting the right kind and enough sleep. Having baby in bed with you is convenient but nerve racking if you should turn over on him in your sleep. It's dangerous for the baby and takes away from you and hubby cuddling at night.
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