I can not take it any more. I don't feel that my DH is supporting the way I feel. DD has him convenced (DF) that if she leaves any other way, but by her own choice, that she may never return. I am at the point that I do not care.
I have to leave my home because I am at the point that all her drama/stress level is phyically causeing me chest pains when I breath.
The only friend I can stay with has her own issues right now.
I guess what I am asking is,
Is there anywhere I can go to get some rest and not be desturbed for a few days?
I only have 20$s.
Hospital? what grounds do I use?
Womans shelter? is it possible to stay there for a Mental calming?
I do not want to fix the situation right now. Right now I need some rest.
Please limit your advice to where I might go to get some rest.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:31 AM on Jul. 22, 2009
Why are you leaving your own home. Kick her ass out. She's 21, time she moved on. Your an enabler to her dysfunctional ways. Your not doing her any favors, in fact your holding her back.
Answer by zbee at 7:35 AM on Jul. 22, 2009
Answer by mschanng at 7:38 AM on Jul. 22, 2009
Answer by samurai_chica at 9:13 AM on Jul. 22, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 9:32 AM on Jul. 22, 2009
Answer by newlifewith3 at 9:35 AM on Jul. 22, 2009
Answer by LadyAronna at 11:41 AM on Jul. 22, 2009
Thank you miss anon. for coming to my rescue. I was really becoming down trodden. I understand that Each of You gave me what you thought was heart felt response and I do appreciate it. Honestly. The tent idea is great but it's thunder-storming here for the next three whole days. I use to go fishing to relax myself. no more. there's no peace in my head, for there to be peace found. I called my Dr. left a message that I've noticed in the last few days that I find it difficult to breath and that my chest was actually beginning to hurt. Maybe something will come of it. I was on the phone last week begging for some nerve pills.
Answer by MamasTooOld at 1:39 PM on Jul. 22, 2009
Mammas to old, In no way was I being rude to you. My anger(not rudeness) was directed at your DD for abusing you to the point that you have chest pains and want to leave your own home because of her. I told you what I would do, but the fact your dh is not even backing you up is even more devastating. I know there are shelters out there for you if that's what you choose, but I sure would be kicking their asses out. As for you pitching a tent in a public parking lot is not the thing to do with all there is going on out there. Good luck hon and I wish you the best.
Answer by zbee at 11:47 AM on Jul. 23, 2009
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