I was posting on another Mom's question who was very hurt and saddened by her last birth experience which was ruined by her MIL and BIL.
As a mom we all know how we want our birth to go. We have ideas of what we'd like to happen and then things happen that are out of our control.
My next birth will be a c-section due to medical necessity out of my control. I would like for my DH or SIL (she's a L&D NICU Nurse) to be in the OR with me. As for the L&D room, I really don't want a lot of people there. I would like for my DH and our sons to come see me but other than that, I don't want to see my FIL or MIL. My MIL means well but she'll try to interject her opinion and I've done this before, thanks.
How does one express specific opinions without offending everyone else you don't want in the room? I love my inlaws but I don't want them seeing all my stuff during a pelvic check.
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