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My husband is a bus driver who works alost 50 ho9urs a week and he's so tired unbtil I have to initiate sex,I have my own issues with sex but I'm willing to help him get it up because I love him so much and we do have a four year old son together. I call him my husband even though we are going to get married someday and I want to spend the rest of my live with this man.I'm 43 and he's 47 we're both overworked and overtired some feedback please?


Asked by wandaluv at 4:11 PM on Jul. 22, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Um, a bus driver sits on his butt all day doesn't he? And I used to work 50+ hours a week and still managed to have time for sex. Sounds like he is just being lazy...if you will do all the work, why should he do any?

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:25 PM on Jul. 22, 2009

  • it sounds like the marriage is sexually doomed before you even say the vows. He's not having sex bc he doesn't want to not bc he's tired. I know men who work longer and harder hours than him and they pop right up and are ready to go at it any time for sex. I wouldn't be planning a wedding if this is an example of what it would be like

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:36 PM on Jul. 22, 2009

  • many bus drivers flirt a lot and get bjs during breaks. I dated a bus driver once and you wouldn't believe where they do it and with who! He's getting it before he gets home, that's why he's tired!

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:37 PM on Jul. 22, 2009

  • His age may have something to do with it as well. Does he have a medical condition that might tire him out even more than the long hours?

    Answer by admckenzie at 4:39 PM on Jul. 22, 2009