I have the hots for a guy that comes into my work. I really think he is the sexiest thing in the world. he is what I picture my dream guy to look like. he is funny, makes me laugh and makes me feel great. The only thing is I am married. I don't believe in cheating or having an affiar, but when he walks in the air leaves my lungs and my heart goes into over drive. I am not joking when I say I have NEVER felt like that before. I just wondered if maybe this feeling was becuase I no longer enjoy being around my husband. I have not been happy with my husband for a long time but I stay for our girl that is almost 4. I want to do the right thing, I really do. But what happens when you can no longer remember why you married the man in the first place. I know I should probably leave, but I worry that I will be making the wrong choice, but how wrong is it to be with someone when you don't really want to be with them. anyone felt this?
Asked by Anonymous at 4:19 PM on Jul. 22, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by AlliMoore1986 at 9:44 PM on Jul. 22, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 4:23 PM on Jul. 22, 2009
Oh yes, i felt this. Although, my ex was a total ASS, so he made the leaving part very easy. Maybe go see a counselor, they can help you Analise these feelings you are having. I hopped right into another relationship though. People told me that it was a mistake, when actually it was one of the best decisions i have ever made. I found the man of my dreams, & I was not going to leave him be & regret that i didn't snatch him up. So, i snatched him up & now we are engaged. Nice being w/ a guy who is not only has complete respect for you, but is super hot & your best friend. You need to thoroughly analise you marriage & ask yourself if this is the situation you want to be in for the rest of your life. Some people stay married & it works out for the better, some people leave & it works out for the better.
Answer by samurai_chica at 4:27 PM on Jul. 22, 2009
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