I know everyone has they falling outs but I feel like me and my husband have had way to many in the year and a half we've been married. We kinda rushed into getting married because he joined the army. He just does a lot of stupid/immature stuff and doesn't put me and our 9 month old daughter first. But then there are times when he can be really sweet and im happy for a little bit. It just worries me because when we are apart I don't really miss him. Im just really confused about it all... Is it normal to feel confused about your marriage at times?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:46 PM on Jul. 22, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 9:55 PM on Jul. 22, 2009
HELLS YEAH! A friend told me warned me about year 7, and I almost thought I wouldn't make it that far. ( My DH and I have been together for 19 years but married for 11; we have two young, school-aged sons-who are 19 mos apart- as well as a puppy.) Once the fog cleared from baby #2, I began to view our marriage very differently. As much as he makes me want to stab his baby toe with a fork in his sleep at times, he is truly one of the best human beings I have ever met. He's a hard working man who wants to take care of our family WITH me. Plus, I don't fear for the safety of myself or my children, and he has never disrespected our relationship. (Probably because of the whole baby toe threat...) And, these two facts along with our history and love are the reasons that I continue this journey with him through hills, valleys, swamps, etc. Good luck!
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