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Why is it?

That I can focus on NOT thinking about my ex, and do a pretty good job of it through the day, but at night I'm always dreaming about him. Is there anyway I can train my mind NOT to dream about him LOL. I know it sounds silly, but it's like those dreams are a big set back for me. Any advice and no bashing please!

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:22 AM on Jul. 23, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (2)
  • bc you ARE focused on not thinking of him means you are really thinking of him and trying to repress the thoughts which surface at night

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:28 AM on Jul. 23, 2009

  • Sorry, you can't control your dreams. They come from the sub-conscious and that's something you can't control.

    Answer by AllAboutKeeley at 9:31 AM on Jul. 23, 2009

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