I've been with my man for 2 years & have a 4 month old child together. He's says he don't know if he'll ever be ready to get married, cause he's afraid of divorce. I feel like I want to marry him, why am I not good enough. I love him more than ANYONE else I've EVER been with. I don't want to leave & he's says he don't want me to leave. Should I just give him more time & space & continue to be with him, or leave. I have 3 kids & I stay at home , so leaving would be a big step. Any advise? Thanks.
Honey I am in the same situation except I am the one who don't want to get married but I love this man and will never leave him. To me I have seen so many people that I know be so happy together until the get married than everything goes to hell. So I guess I am scared of losing what I have and I don't want things to change. I probably will get married but to me its just a piece of paper stating that you are together forever. Don't leave if you really love him like that he is scared of something, so talk to him and if you assure him that everything will be ok and if he trusts you than he will change his mind.
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Marriage is a scary thing to some people. I would give him more time if you truly love him. As time goes buy he will eventually change his mind.
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