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How do u know when ur ready 4 kids...and can u Ever B Ready???

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notsurIwantkids

Asked by notsurIwantkids at 9:01 PM on Jul. 23, 2009 in Pregnancy

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  • The same way you know when you have met the man you want to share the rest of your life with. You just know.
    rkoloms

    Answer by rkoloms at 9:04 PM on Jul. 23, 2009

  • Everyone's defination of "ready" is going to be different. I think that if you are in a stable relationship, have a decent job (or if your a SAHM your husband has one), a stable home, don't depend on PA, and at least made an effort to attend a parenting class or read a few baby books, then I think your "ready" enough.

    Oh, and try to keep the debt low or just get rid of it all together.
    Mama_Kimmy

    Answer by Mama_Kimmy at 9:06 PM on Jul. 23, 2009

  • YOur never REALLY ready for kids. You can be financially ready, you can be mature, in a stable relationship. But untill you have them, and see what it really takes, you never ready.
    jchris

    Answer by jchris at 10:00 PM on Jul. 23, 2009

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