My husband and I have been married for 5 years, and together for 9. We have a wonderful relationship and love each other so much. The only problem is I hate sex. Its never gotten any better for me over the years. No matter how much or how little we do it, it still hurts in the beginning, and then after the initial pain, it just like friction. Like an unfcomfortable rubbing. It does not feel good at all. I only do it because I know he likes it. I had a break down last night during it because I just felt so bad I hated it so much. We do "mess around" several times a week, and thats better. Its just the actual sex that I don't like. He says its perfectly fine, and he just wants me to be happy. I still feel like something's wrong with me. Anyone else feel like this or is it just me?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:54 PM on Jul. 25, 2009 in Relationships
You need to talk to your doctor. It could be a side effect from a medication you are taking or a physical problem.
Answer by beeky at 2:06 PM on Jul. 25, 2009
Answer by missanc at 2:17 PM on Jul. 25, 2009
I hate sex too but I was sexually abused and I've had a hysterectomy. Have you tried using KY lubricants to do away with the frictions feeling. I get that feeling too and we got KY warming and it works well. If you ever want someone to talk to just PM me. I know how you feel trust me.
Answer by luvmygrlz at 2:19 PM on Jul. 25, 2009
Answer by robinsi2000 at 2:25 PM on Jul. 25, 2009
Answer by cat1622 at 2:47 PM on Jul. 25, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 2:54 PM on Jul. 25, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:49 PM on Jul. 25, 2009
Answer by sherlockhlm at 4:34 PM on Jul. 25, 2009
Well I must be a freak of nature because I had a partial hysterectomy 8 years ago, am now going through menopause and I love sex. The older I get the more my sex drive increases.
Answer by beeky at 6:43 PM on Jul. 25, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 8:26 PM on Jul. 25, 2009
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Does this make me a terrible mom? Anyone else feel/felt this way?