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What the heck does he want?

Biodad, who I havent seen since I got preg, who has never seen our DD recently emailed meemailed me.

From: ---
To: Mandi
Date: Jul 24, 2009 6:58 PM
Subject: ???


if i say hi will you say hi back?

From: Mandi
To: ---
Date: Jul 24, 2009 7:02 PM
Subject: RE: ???



Only one way to find out, now isn't there

From: ---
To: Mandi
Date: Jul 24, 2009 10:07 PM
Subject: RE: ???




hello

From: Mandi
To: ---
Date: Jul 25, 2009 12:24 AM
Subject: RE: ???


Hi

From: ---
To: Mandi
Date: Jul 25, 2009 8:12 AM
Subject: RE: ???




well done

From: Mandi
To: ---
Date: Jul 25, 2009 2:22 PM
Subject: RE: ???



Was there something you wanted?

From: ---
To: Mandi

 
Cherrie522

Asked by Cherrie522 at 8:26 PM on Jul. 25, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (7)
  • no but i can leave ya alone if you would like dont wanna piss anybody off. take care kid

    From: Mandi
    To: ---
    Date: Jul 25, 2009 7:55 PM
    Subject: RE: ???


    Was just wondering why you popped up again after almost 6 years.

    From: ---
    To: Mandi
    Date: Jul 25, 2009 8:16 PM
    Subject: RE: ???


    hasnt been quite that long just thought i d say hi and glad your still breathing




    What should I do, what do you think he wants?
    Cherrie522

    Answer by Cherrie522 at 8:27 PM on Jul. 25, 2009

  • sounds like he may be just trying to make a connection...he may be regretting lost time. Or he just wants to bug ya, I am sure you have not heard the last.
    ormom1977

    Answer by ormom1977 at 8:29 PM on Jul. 25, 2009

  • Only he can know what he wants. He may want to try and have a relationship with his child now, maybe he grew up. He maybe just checking to make sure everything is fine. Or he may want something else, who knows...
    mrsmamaj

    Answer by mrsmamaj at 8:35 PM on Jul. 25, 2009

  • personally i wouldn't do anything more. i say if he wants to start something or see his daughter make him work for it. in fact i'm not sure i would even give him the time of day if he left me and his daughter. whata jerk. also he can't tell you what he wants so he hasn't grwon at all.
    melody77

    Answer by melody77 at 8:49 PM on Jul. 25, 2009

  • I hope you have filed for child support for the child. What he wants is not important. It's what you want
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:05 PM on Jul. 25, 2009

  • It's really hard to say what exactly he wants. Remember how he was before, could he be just trying to cause trouble? Could he be only interested in hooking up with for sex? Would he really be interesting in being a part of your child's life. Did he ask anything at all about the baby? Just some questions for you to think about.....
    robinann5

    Answer by robinann5 at 11:28 PM on Jul. 25, 2009

  • maybe he regrets leaving you.I'd at least meet and have a conversation about things. men are fearful creatures and even if they stick around, they're often confused about what they're supposed to do. Unless he was an abusive jerk to begin with. I'd hear him out.
    ranedare

    Answer by ranedare at 4:33 PM on Jul. 26, 2009