Get to know her. She is deep and complicated. Find yourself in her, find your husband in her and then find her in her. How? Poke at her intellectually. What gets her moving? Animals, babies, plants, sports, math, debates, art, books? Then expand that and make it a part of her. If she feels talented in that area, chances are she WILL be. You will also learn more about not only her but yourself. Also, get her involved in social activites such as soccer or music lessions. Ask her what she wants to do, if she says I dont know, give options. If you dont have enough cash, put up a rope will do or a volleyball net and play, eventually others might join in, maybe not the first day. Its summer, take advantage! Another good thing, is give an example. Dont sit on the couch all day or at the computer all day. Get yourself busy doing gardening, yoga, cleaning so she sees that life is only boring if youre boring. I need to do that too!
at 1:58 AM on Jul. 26, 2009