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In need of venting with marriage problems.............

we have money problems, we want kids, had miscarriage month ago, he has bad temper, he doesn't like our outside pets, and wants to get rid of them even though he knows i love them to death..haven't even been married a year..what do you do?????????? idk anymore........

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:25 PM on Jul. 28, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (8)
  • go on a cruise and watch fireproof the movie
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:26 PM on Jul. 28, 2009

  • First off - I have a child with someone who isn't that patient and we had a son with COLIC - be prepared for a BATTLE if that happens. He doesn't sound like a thougthful person if he wants to get rid of your pets that you love -wahh... I know, it gets hard sometimes, was he like this when you married him though?
    maxsmom11807

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 1:28 PM on Jul. 28, 2009

  • maybe he senses your loss and feels guilty, give him time to mourn the loss, men mourn differently, pray for him too.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:28 PM on Jul. 28, 2009

  • he used to be the sweetest person i ever met..until we got engaged..then he started changing..but then i think it was b/c the money situation started to change..idk..
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:30 PM on Jul. 28, 2009

  • maybe try walking together around the neighborhood maybe he suffers from depression? more fish
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:32 PM on Jul. 28, 2009

  • biking going to parks music can all help focus on eachother this is a special time enjoy eachother kids are stressful, they will come later i think but focus on a good foundation ! What about church? I like my Southern Baptist church it helps with destressing too focus on God
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:34 PM on Jul. 28, 2009

  • i try asking him 2 go for walks but he works all day, then is working at a buddy's place helping him so i never hardly see him but yet we still find time 2 argue. lol
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:36 PM on Jul. 28, 2009

  • i agree watch fireproof the movie and pray about it. relationships take much hard work from both partners. but from past experieance do not have kids until you fix your marriage a bad marriage is not healthy for children.
    cleo2582

    Answer by cleo2582 at 2:26 PM on Jul. 28, 2009

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