i was molested once by both my mom and dad when i was 10. I hid it until I was about 24. My dad would go off and on drugs and when he was high he would take me in the bedroom and tell me his discusting sexuall fantasies. he would try to french kiss me and even opened the shower curtain a ccpl times. I finally decided I had enough of being around them and constantly feeling that weight over my head so I wrote them a letter and haven't talked to them since. I have been told by some "church" people that i'm wrong and need to "forgive and let them see their grand kids". " your living your life while your dad is crying every day"!! Pisses me off to hear this! They dont know the hell I went threw or the problems it caused for my marriage and trusting. I do not want my dad around my son (he admitted to me he like s boys) or my baby girl. Anyone else been threw this and how are you dealing with it now? Yes i have had counselingAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:23 AM on Jul. 29, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by ashley_nick30 at 11:27 AM on Jul. 29, 2009
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Answer by gammie at 11:31 AM on Jul. 29, 2009
don't allow anyone to make you do something you are not ready to do even if they are church ppl. Thank them for their suggestions but it's your life. Even if you forgiveyou don't have to allow your parents into your life. Remember that forgiveness is for YOU to find personal peace not necessarily for them. Your parents knew what they were doing when they harmed you. They knew there would be consequences. The consequences is alienation from you and your children. You are a good person and great mom for protecting your children. Stand your ground. You rock!
Answer by admckenzie at 11:48 AM on Jul. 29, 2009
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