I placed my daughter to be adopted by a wonderful couple before she was even born. She was born 6 weeks early and had to be rushed to another hospital that was more equiped to care for her. Her adpotive mother never left her side, but I was living in a hotel with my two year old daughter and recovering for the c-section that became infected. I never even got to see my child or even say good bye to her. I got sent one picture of her in the hospital the her adoptive mother sent me. I can't get over the fact that I never told her how much I love her.
I am so sorry for your loss, which must be amplified by the fact that you never even got to say hello or goodbye. Why not write to the adoptive couple and explain how sad you are that because of the circumstances surrounding her birth this happened and how much this hurts you. If they are as wonderful as you say I'm sure they would arrange a meeting. In the meantime look for a support group and/or a therapist to help you through your grieving process.
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