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don't you think this is so wrong?

my boyfriend's parents just got divorced this past spring and not even a month she is dating an "old friend." she has 4 kids the youngest is 12. she has let this man come over constantly from the get go. they are all over each other. shes always hanging out with him and when they ask where she went she will just say "we just went out." and then she will call to check up on them and when they say they will be home soon shes like "ok! cya soon." shes supposedly a hard core Christian. maybe im making accusations here but its a lil suspicious. also, her daughter finally asked her why he is always over, she doesnt get to spend time with her anymore, and if they culd do things more without him. her mom blew up on her. what the hell? i think she shuld have kept the man away until things got settled with the divorce. the kids arent even over it! it was a shocker to them. ah poor kids :( i feel so bad for them.

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:42 AM on Jul. 31, 2009 in Relationships

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  • it makes me furious that she is doing this. i would never do this to my kids if this were me. id put them first. and not be sneaky around them. bc those kids are not as dumb as she thinks they are

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:43 AM on Jul. 31, 2009

  • shes probably just spreading her wings through the divorce.. trying things on. see what fits. selfish, but necessary. hopefully she will come to senses. till then, pray for her. Lol

    Answer by evilive at 12:45 AM on Jul. 31, 2009

  • i was actually thinking that. she was married for 26 years. i think itll come back to bite her in the ass. itll hit her someday and she will be missing her ex. but whatever she plays games way too much. ugh

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:49 AM on Jul. 31, 2009

  • she'll regret later and i agree with you. she is not being very classy and certainly is being way to selfish. maybe the kids should go live with the dad.

    Answer by melody77 at 2:02 AM on Jul. 31, 2009

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