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he hides ALL of his feelings! im getting frustrated!

my boyfriend has always been kind of the quiet type. and he's very good at hiding ALL of his emotions.. like seriously he will NEVER get mad, sad, annoyed.. or anything. im starting to think this is a big problem, or will become one in the future. he has told me how he felt probably twice in the 6 months we've been dating. it's making me crazy! and although i have no reason not to trust him, i almost feel like hes hiding something because he doesn't communicate. what should i do?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:38 AM on Jul. 31, 2009 in Relationships

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  • You can't force him to talk. But let him know what you're feeling. If nothing changes, consider counseling. Then consider that your boyfriend may not be Mr. Right.

    Answer by gdiamante at 2:50 AM on Jul. 31, 2009

  • bounce he is afraid to speek cuz something might slip

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:57 AM on Jul. 31, 2009

  • So he has something to hide?

    RELATIONSHIP OVER. This second. You DON'T stay with someone who's hiding things from you.

    Answer by gdiamante at 3:28 AM on Jul. 31, 2009

  • Run, Baby, Run!!! This is a big red flag.

    Answer by NannyB. at 8:50 AM on Jul. 31, 2009

  • This is what courtship is for - to find out about a person and if you want to have a long term relationship with him. If you see something that is unbearable now - imagine being married to him or having children with him. It will only get worse and cause lots of fighting. He has problems in basic communication - that is a big deal. Consider breaking things off.

    Answer by kathyartist2007 at 7:31 PM on Jul. 31, 2009

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