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if you invite someone as a friend, and they decline, do you get an email saying they declined?

i sometimes forget if i've invited someone, usually because i go to add them, then get busy. if i have invited them, and they decline, will i get something saying they declined? is there a spot where the sent requests go if they were declined? thanks ladies!


Asked by kyriesmommy13 at 2:07 PM on Jul. 31, 2009 in About CafeMom

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  • No if the invite is declined you will not get a message. It will just disappear from your invites sent list.

    Answer by Liansmommie at 5:05 PM on Jul. 31, 2009

  • I'm pretty sure you don't get notified if someone declines you as a friend, but that might have been changed.

    Answer by Gruntlings at 3:04 PM on Jul. 31, 2009

  • Send me a friend request, and I'll decline, this way you can find out?

    Answer by Bmat at 3:25 PM on Jul. 31, 2009

  • Don't take it personally; I rarely accept a CM friend request, and I have deleted most of the ones I accepted...

    Answer by rkoloms at 5:12 PM on Jul. 31, 2009

  • I just turned down a friends request, I hope it was you? If not then I've hurt somebody's feelings, I'm afraid. The request just vanished. I thought I'd be able to add an explanation or at least see who sent it, but it was gone.

    Answer by Bmat at 6:11 PM on Jul. 31, 2009

  • yep, it was me. thanks for helping with the experiment! it just looks like i never sent anything. so now i know, thanks!

    Answer by kyriesmommy13 at 10:48 PM on Aug. 1, 2009

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