i had a 2nd trimester stillbirth with my first (and only) child, a boy.
we want a boy sooo bad.
we would love a girl, but we really want to get pregnant and have a boy next go around. i am one of 6 girls. there is one 3 yro nephew close by, but we would love to add another boy, everyone would love a girl of course, bykwim.
anyways, so one of my friends (had a dream/that she says are eerily accurate) that i told her i was pregnant and that it was a girl!
the first thought that popped in my head was: a girl?! oh man.
HOW I WOULD LOVE TO BE PREGNANT AGAIN AND HAVE EITHER! A BOY OR A GIRL, JUST HAVE A HEALTHY HAPPY FULL TERM LIVING BABY TO NURTURE AND RAISE...
so whats the deal? i feel terrible that i would think that. i would never do anything, like get rid of my baby because of that or for any reason for that matter.
is it normal to get bummed? am i terrible??
Asked by Anonymous at 2:55 AM on Aug. 1, 2009 in Pregnancy
Answer by 07lilmama1108 at 4:18 AM on Aug. 1, 2009
Answer by momma_shuler at 3:02 AM on Aug. 1, 2009
Answer by alexis_06 at 3:52 AM on Aug. 1, 2009
Answer by Shelii at 4:15 AM on Aug. 1, 2009
Answer by Maya09 at 7:54 AM on Aug. 1, 2009
I actually can't stand it when people pull " I don't care as long as it is healthy crap" it is okay to want your baby to a certain gender. I wanted the one I am pregnant with to be a boy and yeah I was little disappointed when we found out it is a girl. Don't beat yourself up over it. Once the baby is born you'll love it no matter what. Sorry about your loss.
Answer by lilysmom2607 at 9:15 AM on Aug. 1, 2009
Answer by Skye-Angel at 10:12 AM on Aug. 1, 2009
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